Missed Opportunities and Childhood Longings

Rahel and Esta are described as "a pair of actors trapped in a recondite play with no hint of plot or narrative" and wishing for "some cheap brand of exorcism from a counselor with a fancy degree, who would sit them down and say,...'You're not the Sinners. You are the Sinned Against. You were only children. You had no control. You are the victims, not the perpetrators.'"

What do you wish someone had sat you down and explained to you as a child?